HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009

Christmas, it's about HIS GLORY

HAVE A WONDERFUL JOYFUL CHRISTMAS, EMMANUEL...

PENIPUAN TERHADAP ORANG TUA

Just wanna share beberapa pengalaman dari my mom in law and my mom.

kejadian ini mengenai modus penipuan yg beragam cara dan targetnya adalah orang tua.

Kejadian I

diawal taon ini, mungkin bisa jadi taon yg menggembirakan buat mertua saya karena beliau dapet cucu lagi yg sehat dan sempurna (God answer her prayer) tapi kegembiraan itu lenyap.

kejadiannya Minggu, 13 Januari 2008 siang hari

Aku , swami dan baby D pergi keluar untuk shopping groceries seperti biasanya. Otomatis mertua saya tinggal di rumah dengan ditemani housemaid dan parkiran mobil di rumah kosong. Si penipu memang udah ngincer rumah kita dari lama soalnya setelah kejadian ini, housemaid baru cerita kalo si penipu itu sempet tanya "ada Bapaknya gak di rumah?" sekitar 3 (tiga) bulan sebelum kejadian. kebetulan waktu itu banyak orang di rumah dan dijawab sama maid "ada"

waktu mertua saya tidur siang, si penipu datang dan memperkenalkan diri sebagai orang dari PLN. housemaid membangunkan mertua saya yang sedang tidur siang. Mertua saya bangun dan menemui si penipu tsb, dan tanpa ada buruk sangka mertua saya mempersilahkan si penipu tsb masuk ke dlm rumah.

Alasan mertua saya mempersilahkan si penipu masuk itu karena beliau baca di koran sindo bahwa akan ada sosialisasi petugas PLN membagikan lampu hemat listrik ke penduduk.

agar terlihat sebagai petugas PLN yg asli, si penipu menunjukkan identitasnya berupa kartu indentitas pegawai PLN dan meminta untuk mertua saya menunjukkan kamar mana saja yg memakai AC (agar dia bisa melihat ke dlm kamar dan barang apa saja yg dapat dicuri).

Mertua saya di suruh untuk menyalakan AC di lantai atas sedangkan si penipu berteriak dari lantai bawah ( agar dia memiliki waktu untuk mencuri barang berharga yg gampang di raih) dan housemaid di suruh untuk membuat teh.

pada waktu yg bersamaan si penipu a.k.a pencuri mengambil hp mertua saya dan kamera Pentax beserta 2 (dua) lensa tele yg masing- masing harganya puluhan juta... (SIAL!!!!)

Kejadian II

baru saja terjadi kemarin sore menimpa mama saya.

sebuah perusahaan menelpon mama saya dan mengatakan beliau mendapatkan hadiah dan diminta segera datang ke kantor perusahaan yg mencoba menipu beliau.

karena penasaran dan bercampur senang, beliau mendatangi kantor perusahaan tersebut. sesampainya disana beliau disambut dan di berikan kesempatan untuk mengambil doorprize. Doorprize dibuat sedemikian rupa agar yg dijebak tergiur.

mama saya pertama mendapatkan bonus sebesar Rp.1.000.000,- (satu juta rupiah) kemudian di beri doorprize lagi dan beliau mendapatkan hadiah berupa barang elektronik merk G-8 seharga 5 juta-an.

tapi barang tersebut harus ditebus dengan harga 3jt-an tapi mama saya mendapatkan 4 buah barang yang berbeda. akhirnya papa saya nelpon saya dan transaksi tersebut berhasil kami batalkan tapi sayangnya mama saya sudah mengeluarkan sejumlah uang untuk mentraktir karyawan perusahaan tersebut (SIGH!!!!, poor mom)

Ingat- Ingat :

Apabila ada orang yg mengaku PLN, PAM, Telkom berhati- hatilah!.. minta identitas, surat perintah dan persetujuan RT/ RW di lingkungan rumah Anda
Tetap waspada meskipun ada keterangan yang menunjukkan keaslian identitas tsb
Jangan pernah berikan nomer rekening, kartu kredit ataupun keterangan lain yang berhubungan dengan uang atau harta Anda
Minta tolong kepada Saudara dekat yang lebih tahu mengenai perusahaan, produk ataupun proses hukum apabila Anda diberitahu mendapatkan hadiah terutama barang mewah
semua kejadian diatas tentunya bikin saya sakit hati, gondok, kesal dan hampir saja sumpah serapah keluar dari mulut saya. tapi biar semua itu jadi pelajaran berharga buat keluarga kami dan ALert buat semua yg membaca blog ini.

You are the Empress

You are The Empress

Beauty, happiness, pleasure, success, luxury, dissipation.

The Empress is associated with Venus, the feminine planet, so it represents, beauty, charm, pleasure, luxury, and delight. You may be good at home decorating, art or anything to do with making things beautiful.

The Empress is a creator, be it creation of life, of romance, of art or business. While the Magician is the primal spark, the idea made real, and the High Priestess is the one who gives the idea a form, the Empress is the womb where it gestates and grows till it is ready to be born. This is why her symbol is Venus, goddess of beautiful things as well as love. Even so, the Empress is more Demeter, goddess of abundance, then sensual Venus. She is the giver of Earthly gifts, yet at the same time, she can, in anger withhold, as Demeter did when her daughter, Persephone, was kidnapped. In fury and grief, she kept the Earth barren till her child was returned to her.

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somethin to realized

this recently, i found that my baby D often shouting and yelling... show his tantrum... and i realized it's all because of me.

i ussually shout on him when he doin somethin wrong, and i know that is wrong.
baby D also trying to spank his dad while i asked him to have a milk before he got on his bed, oh, that's another mistake i've made...

and the good thing is, i realized that i'm not being a good mom if i keep doin such a thing.

and i decided to calm my self, be patient and wiser to baby D... anyway he just 14mos
so for this 1 (one) week i dont spank, shout or yelling @ him anymore.

if he's got his tantrum, i just talk to him face to face and teach him to say what in his mind or what he feels inside

i believed that every child is good, they just see us (the parents as a role model)

and for me, i want my baby D become a good child...

thank you Son, for makes me realized that Indonesia strong from what they called HOME!!!

happy 14mos

my baby is 14mos
he can walk and talk wif 1 (one) vocabulary and shout it loud...
good job, Son

can walk

yeay... darren can walk...
thank God that he can walk...
and thank God also i have a new gadget with reasonable price
since the USD soooo highhh...

FEAR is not my MIDDLE NAME

since fs under maintenance so i decided to post my weekend a.k.a halal bihalal on 16 Nov 2008 at Mekarsari Tourism park, Cileungsi

yeah, thats me on flying fox.... so, i can assure that Fear is not My Middle Name !!!

saturday date

last saturday,
me and hubby went to Ana's holy matrimony without baby D... (he's been taken care by my mom)
and then after that, both of us went to ratu plaza to take the notebook and have a lil date...
was great, was facinating, hm...
i want some more...

picked up by soulmate(s)

Last night, was suprising...
my hubby picked me up @18.30 wif baby D...

i am happy coz since i have a new housemaid, my family became more organize...
and we can do lots of fun together...

thank you hubby for the surprise, thank you baby D for being good..

thank you God for trustin me to have them..

bisa terselamatkan... can be saved..

sedih karna beberapa waktu lalu laptop rusak, seorang teman mau membantu untuk menyelamatkan foto baby D... duh senangnya...

was sad because the notebook is damaged, one friend tell me that the pics can be saved..
oh... how gratefull i am...

13 mos

Happy 13th months old Dearest baby...

Keep Growing and Glowing...

Healthy and Wealthy...

Mom and Dad loves you so much...

Thank you for being a Wonderful baby...

Jesus loves you so much...

Ridiculous

Since for almost 2(two) weeks we don't have housemaid... Alhasil, setiap pulang ngantor ngurus dinner baby D, siapin baju salin untuk bobonya baby D, masak air panas buat termos, wash dishes baru deh abis itu saya mandi...

Nah, 4(empat) hari sudah swami gak ngantor karena ngurus baby D (untungnya usaha sendiri, jadi masih bisa ditinggal- tinggal kantornya)and we have a RIDICULOUS Conversation last night.

While he's sterilizing milk bottle and i'm washing dishes, he start to asking me about ridicolous thing. we talking about my ex boyfriend. Kira- kira begini percakapannya :

Swami : Coba dulu gak nikah sama aku, pasti gak bakalan repot kaya gini. punya babysitter, punya pembantu, gak usah ngantor. Coba klo kamu nikah sama si penyanyi itu, wah udah enak hidupmu sekarang...
Neii : Ibarat vas bunga yang udah pecah walopun di ambil dan di rekatkan satu persatu masih aja tersisa bekas pecahan tersebut. Lagian belum tentu klo aku jadi nikah sama ex i will have a fabalous baby D...
belum tentu ex akan bisa terima keluarga ku dengan segala macam persoalannya seperti kamu terima mereka.

Swami masih aja make fun of me about these ridiculous thing... walaupun terbayar dengan pisang bakar buatannya di tambah segelas Fanta Blueberry...

huh, hubby...

Bakar- bakaran

Last Sunday, setelah kejadian beberapa hal yang cukup menggelikan bila dinalar oleh akal kami sekeluarga pesta BBQ di rumah.
dengan berbekal sosis, ribs yg tentunya sudah diberi beraneka bumbu oleh mama mertua... jadilah acara bakar membakar terlaksana dengan peralatan tradisional.
kami lebih senang peralatan tradisional karena asap yg dikeluarkan dari arang yang terbakar sangat harum ketimbang charcoal yg dihasilkan oleh sebuah produk untuk alat memanggang merk Weber yg dipinjami adik ipar saya.
sayangnya acara ini tidak diabadikan dengan kamera karena saya sendiri sibuk menyuapi baby D yg lahap sekali makan malamnya. Thank God setelah sakit anakku menemukan kembali nafsu makannya.
Jadilah Abankku seperti gajah dan mama mertua yang sibuk dengan acara kipas mengipas, panggang memanggang...
Saya dan baby D duduk dengan manis memperhatikan proses tsb.
dan dinner malam ini sangat SERU!!!!!

very mellow...

i'm so mellow this past 4 (four) days not only becoz my baby was sick but my husband also...
haven't sleep well for the past 4(four) days...
God, please heal my beloved two....
hear my prayer...

baby D taken Sanmol from Sunday night and i was glad that since yesterday he don't got any fever, and i hope that he is well now...

the biggest worries in my life is unhealthy... and i try to keep my condition always good...

baby sick again

was happy coz i've found the housemaid since Wednesday but suddenly on Saturday morning she asked to go home coz her lil daughter cries for her... ough, no... i should find another housemaid and it's not an easy job this lately...

and now, my son is sick... he got high fever last nite but not as worst last time he got his vimosis infection. And i hope he will get well soon...

God, help me to learn to trust in You that everything gonna be alright, and if it's not alright it was not the end...

finally , i have my own

Finally,
i have my own blog...